The Neurobiology of Losing a Spouse

When someone loses a spouse, people often say it feels as though their entire world has changed overnight. From a psychological perspective, that description is accurate. But what is less widely known is that grief is not only emotional. It is also neurological. The...

Stop Trying to Get Rid of Stress

As I’ve been talking with my clients, friends, colleagues, and family members, it is becoming more and more apparent that increased stress is something we are all experiencing in one form or another in the season of the COVID-19 outbreak and resulting social...

Finding Meaning in Suffering

I’m an advocate of dropping the Why question. “Why?” you might be wondering (see what I did there). I find the question is generally not helpful. I have seldom seen it asked and answered to satisfaction, in any given circumstance. When a growing child asks her mother,...